Family
They say a picture is worth a thousand words. Well this family picture sent to me today, was, to me worth a thousand thoughts. This is a picture of my husband’s father and his entire family, circa 1940, a period in history I feel inexplicably connected to. It shows all the aunts and uncles I first met in the early ’80’s, as they were before they married, had children,had grandchildren. The table is set sparcely for a meal, not necessarily a special holiday meal, but just a meal together - all of them, perhaps for no more reason than to just be with one another. What do you suppose is in the jug? Why is it that in old family pictures, people don’t smile? I know they were happy to be together because I know this family. They have always gathered en masse to celebrate anything and everything. Later, in the 50’s and 60’s, this group, considerably larger with many children, would congregate in the sunny backyards of their new Los Angeles area homes, and throw big barbecues for no other reason but to just be together. For the 28 years I have been a member of this very close family, there have been endless gatherings, big and small, in celebration of all things good, and to hold each other close when someone passed on, leaving a chair at the table open for the next generation to fill. Last week a new baby boy arrived and we all gathered to bless this child and welcome him to the family. Although most of the people in the picture were not in attendance physically, their spirit was strongly felt. The group pictures taken that day look different, but you can still see in their faces the ties to those that came before. I can’t even count anymore how many wonderful people populate this world because of the 13 people pictured here. It is truly a blessing to have a spot at the table in this family - a sense of place long after the picture curls and cracks.
I’LL DRINK TO THAT!
Family run wineries have always been my favorite to support. That’s one reason why I love the Paso Robles area wineries. Lots of families working together there. There is just a lot to be said about family members working together for the greater good - a common goal of everyone pitching in to support the family. On a visit to Paso last year, four of us were treated to a barrel tasting and tour at Midnight Cellars Winery and Vineyard, a 10 year old operation on the Westside, founded by 5 members of the Hartenberger family. Rich Hartenberger, dressed casually in jeans and a t-shirt for harvest work, took time out of his day to lovingly explain the status and process of the different wines in barrel, and explained what we were tasting at that point, and how the wines might evolve by the time they were ready for bottling. While we sipped, (and spit - a little), he explained the roles of different family members in the business and also how the neighbors all support one another, especially during the hectic harvest season. Then into the tasting room for, hic-up, more tasting. While we continued to taste the large array of big, full-bodied reds, Rich regaled us with tasting room stories and invited us back for their annual Chicago Rib night party - a must attend event he said.
Cabernet Franc, usually thought of a blending grape in Bordeaux style wines, is given its own label at Midnight. The ‘o5, which we opened this week, was lush and full bodied - elegant on its own. Unfortunately for all of us, there’s no more available. Aargh.. However, Karen at the winery has informed me that they just took 4-star Gold Medal at the Orange County Fair for their ‘05 Petite Sirah, “Eclipse”. Congrats on that one! Perhaps we should give that wine a try. Visit this family venture winery at www.midnightcellars.com.




